Fat Talk Free Week 10/13-10/17/08
I woke up this morning and what should I see, but an article where Eva Longoria-Parker was “defending” herself regarding a 7lb weight gain (click on link for photo evidence of Longoria-Parker’s “roundness” – yeah, I know..I’m still looking too!) . Seven FUCKING pounds..and she’s all talking about how she’s “still” a size 0 – even after a 7lb weight gain.
UM…HELLLOOOOOOO. WTF kind of world are we living in, where a skinny chick, who is STILL a skinny chick, has to talk about a 7lb weight gain????
Then I pop over to Broadsheet for some sanity, and find this: Fat Talk Free Week, part of the Reflections: Body Image Program. This is a program being instituted on college campuses around the country, to raise our consciousness of the widespread prevalance of body image issues among women and to promote the idea that it’s important to be “healthy” and to appreciate your healthy body, regardless of it’s size or shape, which is to be celebrated unto itself. Being thin, doesn’t necessarily mean you are healthy – especially if you have to exercise like an obsessive nut, and skip lots of meals , or eat freaky to do it.
54% of women report that they would rather be HIT BY A TRUCK, then be FAT. How effed is THAT? Cripes.
Well…I’m in on this. One week, where I will NOT talk about how big my thighs are, or how that girl should NOT be wearing that (not something I engage in much anyway…so that should be easy). How ’bout it? Join me? Get your cousins, moms, sisters, bffs to join us?
Please do take a few minutes to watch this video – it’s rather shocking in its stats.
And don’t forget: NOW’s Love Your Body Day is tomorrow, 10/15. Let’s take back our power!
Come on chicas – let’s luf ourselves!
Thanks for posting this. As someone who has struggled with weight my whole life long, I really get upset over this.
So for those who would rather be hit by a truck than be fat, I am sorry for them. I would rather not be fat but I can only learn to love and heal and then work with what I have.
Love is the answer- for the self!
Thank you!!!!!!!!
(((((((Fran))))))) Me too.
Eileen, honey, don’t start the day getting me to think about your thighs. I’m a married man!
Now Paul…you KNOW I have no control over your mind, nor anyone else’s…
All I do is suggest…what you all do with the suggestion, is up to you all. Laughs!
Heh, heh… Paul got to it before I did ;-> So just stop it, you tease!
And yeah, I rolled my eyes, too, at the article about Eva. But I still gave that picture long, thoughtful study…
Laughs at you too David!
And I know what you mean about Eva..even I was looking at her…damn.
Awesome post!! And I love your blog — can’t believe I haven’t seen it till now. I’ve posted on my hatred of Barbie on my blog in the past … I’m finding it such a challenge to raise two daughters amidst the crazy messages we women are bombarded with every single minute of the day. Doesn’t help that my office is next door to a modeling agency where there is a steady stream of young women walking in and out of, who seemingly disappear when they turn sideways…..
Welcome Kristin! Glad you enjoyed the post and my blog.
Anybody who hates Barbie is on my good list!
I hate the way women’s bodies have been turned into consumer items. Thank you for this post.
That Paul (A)., he flirts on several blogs, you know. 😉
Today is the day! Thanks for this. I’m celebratin’.
Men have body issues too ya know!
(Dreaming about losing the next 24 lbs…)
I’m with piscosours (and not for the first time). I gots body issues, too. I was a skinny guy until I hit 40 and quit smoking!
Yeah but Padre you’ll live a lot longer and for that I am glad.
Another one whose weight soared in the past three years and the doctor’s response was, ‘live with it.’ That’s hard because I am miserable; I look in the mirror and I don’t even recognise myself.
/me commiserates with Padre Mickey.
I was as thin as a rail and could eat like a horse until hit my thirties (and got married. hmmmm…?)
Gentlemens….then line up wif da wimins…and stop worrying about it.
We luf you just the same…just like you luf us, right?
SO NO FAT TALK.
So far..I’m doing pretty good.
We luf you just the same…just like you luf us, right?
Absolutely, oh babelicious hostess! 😉