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		<title>Comment on Things I&#8217;m praying for&#8230; by Lindy</title>
		<link>http://episcopalifem.wordpress.com/2009/11/23/things-im-praying-for/#comment-9622</link>
		<dc:creator>Lindy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 06:35:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I will pray for you too, Eileen.  I  believe there&#039;s healing for all of us.  Eventually.  Until then we have hope.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I will pray for you too, Eileen.  I  believe there&#8217;s healing for all of us.  Eventually.  Until then we have hope.</p>
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		<title>Comment on This cheers me up! by scottishpeace</title>
		<link>http://episcopalifem.wordpress.com/2009/11/25/this-cheers-me-up-2/#comment-9620</link>
		<dc:creator>scottishpeace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 03:33:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL for LOLCats! Happy Thanksgiving!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Things I&#8217;m praying for&#8230; by Jane R</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jane R</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 00:50:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Prayers, Eileen, and love to you.  Sorry I have been so scarce a presence on the blogs recently.  I am taking part of my time off for this Thanksgiving to reconnect!  Thank you for naming the dead and the living.  This act of memory is sacred. Hugs to you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Prayers, Eileen, and love to you.  Sorry I have been so scarce a presence on the blogs recently.  I am taking part of my time off for this Thanksgiving to reconnect!  Thank you for naming the dead and the living.  This act of memory is sacred. Hugs to you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Shane Claiborne Asks: What if Jesus really meant that stuff? by Episcogranny</title>
		<link>http://episcopalifem.wordpress.com/2009/11/25/shane-claiborne-asks-what-if-jesus-really-meant-that-stuff/#comment-9618</link>
		<dc:creator>Episcogranny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 23:52:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is great! Thanks for sharing.</description>
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		<title>Comment on This cheers me up! by episcopalifem</title>
		<link>http://episcopalifem.wordpress.com/2009/11/25/this-cheers-me-up-2/#comment-9616</link>
		<dc:creator>episcopalifem</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 20:59:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah..I know what you mean.</description>
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		<title>Comment on This cheers me up! by PseudoPiskie</title>
		<link>http://episcopalifem.wordpress.com/2009/11/25/this-cheers-me-up-2/#comment-9615</link>
		<dc:creator>PseudoPiskie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 20:57:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How I wish that were possible!  Especially my own.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How I wish that were possible!  Especially my own.</p>
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		<title>Comment on My mind is blown by this: Locked In Syndrome by episcopalifem</title>
		<link>http://episcopalifem.wordpress.com/2009/11/24/my-mind-is-blown-by-this-locked-in-syndrome/#comment-9614</link>
		<dc:creator>episcopalifem</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 14:15:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Listen, as I said in a post below, I had a very difficult time putting  my cat to sleep - the enormity of that decision continues to weigh upon me, even years later.

To make that decision for another human being blows me away.  It&#039;s not the kind of decision that should be placed upon any of us. That&#039;s why it&#039;s so important to have those discussions up front, and to let your loved ones know what it is you wish - it takes the burden of that decision off of your loved ones, and makes it your own decision.

I got more than an eyeful of people and families living with coma during the 3 years or so that I worked at that nursing facility.  That has informed my own personal definition of what I&#039;d consider &quot;life&quot; for my part, and I have communicated that.

My comment here, as Lapin says, is more on the living hell it must have been to endure being sentient, but having no way to let anyone around you know that. Watching your loved ones suffer, being unable to communicate pain or anger or your general wishes is for me, an unimaginable hell.

I&#039;m grateful that there is technology available in this day and age to help release those who are locked in from their living prisons, but I still feel uneasy in my gut about the medicine that puts them there. That doesn&#039;t put a value on their life, and just makes me wonder what &quot;life&quot; is. Is living in a comatose state living? I&#039;m not sure, and from what I&#039;ve seen first hand, it appears to just be existing - especially for those who really ARE in a non-sentient state.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Listen, as I said in a post below, I had a very difficult time putting  my cat to sleep &#8211; the enormity of that decision continues to weigh upon me, even years later.</p>
<p>To make that decision for another human being blows me away.  It&#8217;s not the kind of decision that should be placed upon any of us. That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s so important to have those discussions up front, and to let your loved ones know what it is you wish &#8211; it takes the burden of that decision off of your loved ones, and makes it your own decision.</p>
<p>I got more than an eyeful of people and families living with coma during the 3 years or so that I worked at that nursing facility.  That has informed my own personal definition of what I&#8217;d consider &#8220;life&#8221; for my part, and I have communicated that.</p>
<p>My comment here, as Lapin says, is more on the living hell it must have been to endure being sentient, but having no way to let anyone around you know that. Watching your loved ones suffer, being unable to communicate pain or anger or your general wishes is for me, an unimaginable hell.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m grateful that there is technology available in this day and age to help release those who are locked in from their living prisons, but I still feel uneasy in my gut about the medicine that puts them there. That doesn&#8217;t put a value on their life, and just makes me wonder what &#8220;life&#8221; is. Is living in a comatose state living? I&#8217;m not sure, and from what I&#8217;ve seen first hand, it appears to just be existing &#8211; especially for those who really ARE in a non-sentient state.</p>
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		<title>Comment on My mind is blown by this: Locked In Syndrome by Lapinbizarre</title>
		<link>http://episcopalifem.wordpress.com/2009/11/24/my-mind-is-blown-by-this-locked-in-syndrome/#comment-9613</link>
		<dc:creator>Lapinbizarre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 12:57:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Don&#039;t see that anyone has judged the man&#039;s life not worth living,  Trooper - just a consensus  that those posting before you might sooner not have to live it themselves.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t see that anyone has judged the man&#8217;s life not worth living,  Trooper &#8211; just a consensus  that those posting before you might sooner not have to live it themselves.</p>
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		<title>Comment on My mind is blown by this: Locked In Syndrome by trooper</title>
		<link>http://episcopalifem.wordpress.com/2009/11/24/my-mind-is-blown-by-this-locked-in-syndrome/#comment-9612</link>
		<dc:creator>trooper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 06:19:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Have you seen the &quot;Butterfly and the Diving Bell&quot; about this subject?  Who are we to say that this life isn&#039;t worth living?  I get that you should state your intentions before this happened, but life is life, yes? The guy in that movie was both &quot;locked in&quot; and found his life to be worth living.  Is there someone out there that can define who&#039;s &quot;functional&quot; enough to count?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you seen the &#8220;Butterfly and the Diving Bell&#8221; about this subject?  Who are we to say that this life isn&#8217;t worth living?  I get that you should state your intentions before this happened, but life is life, yes? The guy in that movie was both &#8220;locked in&#8221; and found his life to be worth living.  Is there someone out there that can define who&#8217;s &#8220;functional&#8221; enough to count?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Things I&#8217;m praying for&#8230; by Grandmère Mimi</title>
		<link>http://episcopalifem.wordpress.com/2009/11/23/things-im-praying-for/#comment-9611</link>
		<dc:creator>Grandmère Mimi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:26:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Eileen, thank you for your prayers, luv.   I&#039;ll pray for you and your husband and for all those who have suffered losses.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eileen, thank you for your prayers, luv.   I&#8217;ll pray for you and your husband and for all those who have suffered losses.</p>
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